Ref. : http://www.skinnydipcandle.com/erotic-massage.html
Setting the Mood
An erotic massage should be a pleasant, sensual experience and there many things that you can do to ensure that it is.
First, arrange for privacy so that you aren't interrupted. Lock the doors, turn off the cell phones, and eliminate distractions.
Second, it's important to set the mood. A memorable erotic massage is not hurried. Set the mood appropriately. Dim the lights, stage a spacious massage area (beds are much more comfortable than couches or the floor), make sure the room is neither too warm nor too cold, play some relaxing music, and light a few candles for soft glow and light fragrance. Lighting at least one Skinny Dip Candle is absolutely perfect. Not only will the candle provide the soft glow and fragrance, but it melts to become a deliciously warm massage oil that is ideal for giving the massage itself.
Prior to the massage, suggest that your partner take a luxurious bath, complete with bath salts and candlelight. Your partner is both freshly bathed, as well as relaxed, and ready to enjoy your massage.
Giving the Massage
First, it's important to relax and enjoy yourself. Do not worry that you don't have massage experience. This is not a therapeutic massage, but rather a massage to help your partner relax and enjoy what will likely be the prelude to a romantic, sexual encounter.
Start slowly, be sensitive to your partner’s response and adapt your technique accordingly. While great massages are not the easiest to give, it is also difficult to give a bad one if you simply keep you partner in mind, keep your movements tender and rhythmic, and be cognisant of your partner's response.To get started, simply rub some massage oil or cream in your hands and warm it prior to starting . . .then go to work. (Using a Skinny Dip Candle is perfect here. . .no worry about "warming" the massage oil as it will be the wonderfully warm as it melts.)
Where should you start the massage? There's actually no "right" way to go about it. Generally speaking though, it's natural to start with your partner lying on their stomach. Begin at the soldiers, then go to the neck, down to his or her shoulders, arms, upper back, lower back, buttocks, thighs, calves, and then the feet. You may wish to then have your partner move to their back and start at the feet and work your way back upwards. Some suggest working on the feet and legs, then skip to the upper body, moving slowly back down toward the stomach and pelvic area. There is absolutely no one way to do an erotic massage, so see what your partner responds to and then you can gauge your movement from there. Working on certain areas longer, or more often, than others is both appropriate, and perhaps desirable. Just be sure not to dwell too long on areas of particular sensitivity.
Some areas are better massaged somewhat softly, others are better if they are massaged deeper, so start experimenting. Just be tender and keep your motions flowing. As you gain experience, it will start becoming second nature to you. The whole concept of erotic massage involves being touched in a way that will subtly arouse your partner sexually, so strive to keep continual contact with your partner. As you explore his or her body, try to do it in a way that creates a continuous flow of movement, as well as to increase the level of intimacy as the massage progresses.
If you are doing a partner massage for the first time, or learning to please a new partner, it's especially important to communicate. You don't necessarily have to ask if every motion you try feels pleasurable, but don't be afraid to ask if they want you to massage an area harder or softer, and so forth. You also want to be sure to listen to your partner's breathing. Breathing patterns can provide an excellent indication of how you are doing.
Angel Escort Center : Shanghai Escort | Shanghai Escorts | Shanghai Massage| Hong Kong Escort | Beijing Escort
No comments:
Post a Comment